Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Get a Healthy Attitude with Mackie Shilstone

I was able to pin Mackie Shilstone down for a quick interview which, considering his clientele, wasn’t easy. As sought-after as he is nationally and internationally, many people don’t realize we have one of the foremost experts in the world and a true pioneer in the health and fitness field right here in our own backyard.

Mackie Shilstone’s worked with over 3,000 athletes and celebrities such as John Goodman, Riddick Bowe, Serena Williams, Michael Spinks, Bernard Hopkins, Steve Wynn, and Ozzie Smith – just to name a few. He is a special advisor the U.S. Olympic Committee; has held positions at Tulane, LSU, and Nicholls; has served on the Governor’s Council on Physical Fitness and Sports; has been praised in or on USA Today, The Wall Street Journal, ESPN, HBO, and People; and was voted one of the 50 most influential people in the history of boxing. Mackie holds four degrees, including an M.A. and an M.B.A. He is currently the director of The Fitness Principle at East Jefferson General Hospital and the owner of six area GNC franchises.

To have one of the foremost experts in the world sitting across from me was an incredible opportunity. I wanted to know how he began, what kept him going, and what he’d like to share with us.
How did you get into the field?

I’m a third-generation Tulane alumnus. When I was attending Tulane, I knew I was going to play – but at 5’8” and 130 lbs., I knew I would have to prove myself. I trained, I pushed myself, and did everything I could. As I ran near Tulane’s stadium, I kept telling myself, “I’m going to be in there someday.” I was.

While in college, I created one of the only “real” gyms in New Orleans in my own backyard, across from the old Tulane stadium on Audubon Boulevard. I was in the health and fitness field before there even was a health and fitness field. In 1975, the Pittsburgh Steelers came to play Super Bowl IX at Tulane. There was no gym in town, so the entire team came to my covered backyard gym to work out. Their strength coach was my own mentor, so I had the exact same equipment they already used. They won that Super Bowl.

Later that year Arnold Schwarzenegger was just coming out with his book Pumping Iron and he came to New Orleans to promote it. Again, there was no real gym for photo shoots or anything else, so he came to mine. I had Arnold Schwarzenegger working out in my backyard.

There’s a lot more to the whole story, but that’s really how it all began – believing in myself and in what I was doing.

Who do you look to for inspiration?

My father, may he rest in peace. He fought in WWII in Asia and in Europe, ending with the pivotal Battle of the Bulge. He was a captain and a chemical engineer, commanding Company A of the 94th Chemical Mortar Battalion. He blew holes in enemy lines to make way for Allied troops, including General Patton himself. At one point, he was ordered to take control of a German town. As the company was searching building by building, he came into a room at the same as a German soldier. As my dad told his brother later, “It was him or me and, luckily, I shot first.” If my father could survive the horrors of war and still accomplish all he did later in life, then I have no excuse.

What is your formula for success?

For me, success is straight-forward. One, study – you have to be knowledgeable in your field. Two, plan – you have to know what your goals are. Three, preparation – you don’t jump into a fight with training for it. Four, execution – you do it. Five, follow-up – you have to finish it. And the driving force behind all of it is attention to detail.

What advice would you give everyday people?

First, I’d say there are no excuses. My body doesn’t know I’m 59 because I don’t treat it like it’s 59. I challenged the Tulane football team the other day to 14 minute conditioning drills before the start of their summer conditioning program and some of them didn’t finish. There are no excuses.

Second, I’d say there are no barriers between professional athletes and the average person, only different target goals and training times to reach them. After working with million-dollar athletes and everyday people alike, I know this is reality.

Third, I’d relate three easy-to-do tips:

1. Get a pedometer and count how many steps you take per week. On average, an obese person takes 4,600 to 6,000 steps a week, an overweight person takes about 6,000 to 7,000, and people of normal weight take between 7,000 and 8,000. You need to add about 2,000 steps a week to your routine to move into the next fitness bracket.

2. Cut out 100 calories a day from your diet. This alone will help you lose a pound every 35 days – between ten and twelve pounds a year. Keep a simple food journal to find ways to cut just 100 calories a day.

3. I recommend taking between 500 and 1,000 mg (EPA + DHA) of a high quality fish oil every day, with physician approval. The American Academy of Cardiology and scores of others have endorsed the long-term health benefits. Some people may need more based on their medical history, so they should consult their doctor.

To put it another way, Mackie’s success is mostly due to his attitude – there’s no excuse for anything less than the best. We’ve got to get off our attitude and focus on achieving a wealth of health to improve our lives and the lives of those around us.

To learn more about Mackie and achieving a wealth of health, go to www.mackieshilstone.com and visit one of his six stores.

“Remember that it is up to you to choose everyday to Get off Your Attitude and to create a positive lifestyle for yourself and others” Ryan C. Lowe

For more information please visit www.getoffyourattitude.com or www.ryanclowe.com

Have an Attitude of Gratitude

During the holiday season, it’s important to have “an attitude of gratitude.” This is the perfect time of year to remember how blessed we are, how truly amazing life is, and how wonderful the people around us are. Now – more than ever – is the time to show our appreciation towards the things in our lives that makes us happy. Adopting this habit – showing how thankful and grateful we are – will put us in a state of mind to better enjoy the holidays and life altogether.

How do you achieve an attitude of gratitude? Here are five ideas to help you feel more optimistic, happier, and at peace during this season.

Love the little things

We should be thankful for everything in our life, not just the big things, like a nice house or a stable job. We should show appreciation for the small things, too. A stranger’s hello or a pet’s cheerful bark is sometimes as inspiring and wonderful as an artist’s masterpiece. Showing appreciation for the small things in your life can help your reach a better understanding of what happiness really is. Even a compliment or saying thank you can put you in a peaceful and grateful state of mind. Make sure you keep an eye on the smallest prize. Remember the little things can sometimes be the biggest gifts in the world.

Watch what you take for granted

We often look right past what we see every day – the events or things so common as to be unnoticed. It’s called taking things for granted. We even can do this to people in our lives. We must adopt the habit of being aware of everything and everyone we have in our life. We take for granted our family, our health, our friends, and our freedoms. We usually don’t know what we have in our life until we lose it. Don’t wait until it’s gone – make an effort to see the little things and be appreciative of them.

Consider your comparisons

We all have the tendency to look at others and see how well they are doing vs. how well we’re not doing. This is the wrong way to live our lives. We shouldn’t compare our lives to others’. We don’t know what the other person’s journey was to reach that point in their life. What we should be doing is showing a sense of happiness that they were able to achieve that measure of success. If you want to constructively compare your life against someone else’s, consider those less fortunate than you. This should help you be thankful for what you have and inspire you to help them, too. Make them feel special and especially try to bring peace and happiness to their lives. Don’t look at others to see what you do not have – look at what you have to see how you can help others.

Look for the good

Anyone can find the good in any situation, no matter how bad it is. We have all had seasons in our lives where we couldn’t see the good, but trust me – it’s always there. Sometimes we just didn’t want to accept it. I have learned those are the times we grow and find some good things about ourselves. Adversity shows our true character during these times. Being thankful for what you have in life is a way to see on the good in any situation. In fact, seeing the good in our lives should always be our main focus, all the time. If you’re going through hard times, remember this: it’s not always as bad as it seems. Having an attitude of gratitude during these times will help you remember what is going right and inspire you to keep going on.

Journal what you’re grateful for

Write it down. Make a list of all the people, events, and things you’re grateful for. When you do this exercise, take time to feel the difference in yourself. Go ahead and write down everything that you love about your life, your family, your school, your friends, your job, and anything else you can think of. Write down as many things as you can for each area. If you find yourself being negative or taking any of these for granted, watch the magic come alive as you use your pen to write down all the things that are good.

See how different you feel? This simple little exercise will give you a whole new perspective. The next time you find yourself grumbling and complaining about your situation, go back to this list and be reminded of all the things you’re blessed with. Let it inspire you to have the right attitude and to make an even better life than you are already living.

I think Zig Ziglar said it best: “Of all the ‘attitudes’ we can acquire, surely the attitude of gratitude is the most important and by far the most life-changing.”

Keep this attitude of gratitude during the Christmas season and throughout your life. Make sure you are keeping the right perspective when it comes to what you have already in your life and the importance of your relationships. Make sure your life is an example others can live by and be inspired by. It is amazing that something as small as showing appreciation and saying thank you can create some of the best and most inspiring moments in others’ lives.

One last thing – and this is the most important – thank God everyday for the life He has given you and the things you are blessed with. One of the best things we can do with our lives is take the talents and blessings He has given us and put them to great use while we are here on this earth. Merry Christmas and may your holidays be as blessed as mine.

“Remember that it is up to you to choose everyday to “Get off Your Attitude” and to create a positive lifestyle for yourself and others” Ryan C. Lowe

For more information please visit www.getoffyourattitud.com or www.ryanclowe.com

Seven Habits for Creating and Maintaining a Positive Mental Attitude

In today’s world, we are experiencing more uncertain and troubling times than ever before. Every time you turn on the TV or get on the computer, it seems there is always more news that just weighs you down. On top of that, you have your own personal issues to deal with. This “negative storm” can cause someone to feel stuck, lost and full of anxiety. It is the fear of the unknown that builds up in our mind and takes over like a dark cloud. This dark cloud follows us and rains on us, making us negative in our personal and professional lives. As humans, we sometimes focus on the negative and stay under that negative cloud that we created. We must understand that we can walk from under this cloud at anytime, and we have the power to make our days sunny and bright.

I am sharing with you 7 habits that I have found to be the most effective when creating and maintaining positive mental attitude along with my GOYA (Get off Your Attitude) Tip to get you moving.

1.Think Positive

Thinking Positive is probably the most important of the habits that I can share with you, because you know that everything starts in the mind. Thoughts turn into feelings, which then turn into actions. If you tell yourself you can’t do something, you will ultimately find failure. If you tell yourself you can do it, you have increased your chances of accomplishing that goal. Keep your mind clear and your thoughts positive. This habit will bring great success to you in your personal and professional life.
GOYA Tip: When a negative thought comes into your mind, instantly swap it with a positive one. An example of this would be thinking about a child’s smile or someone you know. This will keep the mind clear of any negative thoughts.

2.Focus on the Future

Too many of us dwell on our past and let it block our vision of our future. We think about something disturbing that happened to us or we think about something that someone has told us that upset us, and we play it over and over like an old movie reel. We need to break this bad habit and visualize on what we want our future to be. The next time your past is haunting you, instantly think about something in your future. Write down your goals and create a vision board. This way you can always focus and see the positive things you want in life.

GOYA Tip: Make a list of all things that you want in life. Go online and find it, print a picture of each item. Pin them up on a board in your office or home where you can see them. Look at this vision board daily and visualize yourself possessing all of these items.

3.Read and Listen to Positive Information

One of the best ways to create a positive mindset is by filling it with positive information. Too many times we get our information from the wrong places. We get focused on the negative news of the world and it bleeds into our subconscious. We need to learn to be careful on what we let into our mind. To get out of the negative rut, we need to get in the habit of picking up an inspirational book, find a positive article on the web or just listen to a positive inspirational CD. These positive items will open your mind, encourage, inspire, and teach you how to create a positive mindset. (Some of my favorite inspirational authors are Zig Ziglar, Julio Melara & Brian Tracy)

GOYA Tip: Put a Positive CD in your car, home stereo or in at your office. Listen to it for the length of the car ride or 30 minutes in your home or office. Try to implement that one new positive idea that you learned into what you are doing that particular day.

4.Plan Ahead

Using time efficiently helps to maintain a positive attitude. The best way to do this is to plan your day and your week ahead of time. We need to adopt this habit so that we won’t let procrastination take over and keep us from reaching our goals. The habit of planning and focusing on your priorities and important tasks will help you accomplish more in less time. This very act will keep your life in check and help you stay on track towards your goals and let you know stay aware of your accomplishments.

GOYA Tip: Each day sit at your desk for ten minutes and map out your next day. This exercise can save two hours the next day.

5.Get Around Positive People

Stay away from negative and pessimistic people. Surround yourself with positive people, and you will be more positive! This is a simple and crucial habit in reaching a positive lifestyle. Negative people can rob you of your energy and your drive. We must learn to get around people that are like minded, have goals and the ones that have courage to go forward in life.
GOYA Tip: Think about someone that you respect and has the positive traits that you want to possess. Try to meet with that person frequently so that their positive attitude will become part of you.

6. Be Grateful

Take some time everyday to be grateful and thankful for everything that you have in your life right now. It is easy for us to focus on what we don’t have or things we didn’t accomplish. Find these great things and recognize them. The very thought of what you are grateful for will help you maintain a positive attitude in your life. This habit is one of the best ways to turn negative thinking into positive thinking instantly.

GOYA Tip: Write down the top 10 things you are grateful for and read them over at least 10 times daily!

7. Exercise More

The habit of daily exercise will help you improve your mood, along with helping to against stress and depression. This healthy habit will keep you living longer and living a healthier lifestyle. Remember exercising will also make you feel better about yourself. When you feel better about yourself, it breeds confidence which will help you in your personal and professional life.

GOYA Tip: Go for a 30 minute brisk walk on a treadmill or around the neighborhood. This is a great exercise to create positive thinking.

If you follow and implement these 7 life changing habits daily, they will bring you the success and happiness you desire. These habits will take you from underneath that dark cloud of negativity and bring you out into the sunshine of a positive lifestyle. Use these 7 habits and tips to improve your attitude and see the positive things like peace and happiness that will come into your life.

”Remember that it is up to you to choose everyday to Get off Your Attitude and to create a positive lifestyle for yourself and others” Ryan C. Lowe

For more information please visit www.getoffyourattitude.com or www.ryanclowe.com

Don’t let a negative attitude block you from your success

The other night I was reminded by a close friend of mine why I decided to write the book “Get Off Your Attitude.” She had mentioned that she thinks that most people let their negative attitudes block them from their successes in life. It could be any type of success; it could be in friendships, marriage or their career. We discussed several possible reasons for this, and the ones that really hit home to me are your past, your current situation and the influence of your circle of friends. The reason why these hit home to me is because they are areas in which I have personally struggled. Please note that I am writing these blogs and the book because I have know how it feels it how these areas can drain you and keep your from your success.

Your Past

Our past is something that always reminds us of where we have been, and too often we let it dictate our present and our future. This is a habit that I think we have all struggled with at some point in our lives, and some of us have never learned how to let go of the parts of our past that haunt us. We simply must learn to let it go. No one on this earth can change it, rewrite it or relive it. We must accept that it is over. The one thing you can’t do is forget the lesson. There is beauty in every lesson of our past, and is the most important aspect of our past. Have you ever noticed that when we first choose not to see the lesson, that it just keeps coming back at us until we do?
I firmly believe that one of the most powerful things we can do to discover these lessons in life is to journal. I write in my journal every day. I write down the good, bad, and the ugly. I write it down and move on. This is one way that can help you know that you are moving on and that you are a student of life.

Your Current Situation

Whether your current situation is good or bad, always remember that it will change. We all seem to think that the current situation is forever, but it is important to realize that it is only for a season. This is true whether you are in a bad relationship, a bad job, or in a bad financial situation.
One of the things you can do to get into a better current situation — it doesn’t matter what it is, how bad it seems, or how long you’ve been in it — is to have a game plan to make it better. You also must have goals. Your goals and game plan will keep you on track to a better situation. One the things I have learned is that you can’t change this overnight, but you can work on it a little bit daily and take it one day at a time. This will put you in control and it will definitely help you to develop a better attitude.

Your Friends

The people you are surrounding yourself with will dictate your future. I remember growing up and my mom and dad always saying things like, “birds of a feather flock together,” or my favorite is: “You lay down with dogs and you will get fleas.” I never really understood it until I was older and I must admit I didn’t listen to them. I thought I could hang out with anyone and I could keep on moving towards my goals in life. Take it from me, it does not work that way. You must surround yourself with people that are on the same playing field you are on. If you are looking to live a great life and you are looking to better yourself, you must. I remember going to one of my first motivational seminars at a young age and the speaker said, “If there is someone in your life that consistently stresses you out, get rid of them.” I did exactly what he said and it worked. I focused on others that could lift me during tough time. Remember also that you don’t want to be the person that they want to get rid of, and so make sure you bring value to your relationship to them. The way you can do that is to be positive with them and be truthful when it comes to helping each other.

One of things you can do is write down the top five people you surround yourself with. Ask yourself, are they bringing a positive effect and bringing joy to your life and are you doing the same for them? Also, you must ask yourself, “Are these individuals people that you can trust and are they people you wan to help achieve success their own lives?” This will be one of the most important things you do to help yourself achieve and maintain positive attitude.

Keep in mind that these three areas are only a few that I decided to write about in this blog. There are more that I will discuss in future blogs and in the book. I strongly welcome your feedback and I ask you to please let me know if this has helped you and if you have any suggestions on how to work on these areas and make them better. I love to hear how people have gotten of their attitude. Also, please feel free to share this blog with any of your friends who you think will benefit from its message. I truly want help others reach their dreams and goals in life with a positive attitude.

”Remember that it is up to you to choose everyday to Get off Your Attitude and to create a positive lifestyle for yourself and others” Ryan C. Lowe
For more information please visit www.getoffyouratittude.com or www.Ryanclowe.com

The Key to Reaching Your Dreams – New Orleans Style!

This may be one of the most exciting times to ever live in Southern Louisiana, particularly in the New Orleans metropolitan area. Just ask New Orleans Saint Quarterback Drew Brees, he’ll be happy to share with you the journey that he and his team made these past few years that led them to their first Super Bowl victory in the franchise’s history.

I personally have been watching the Saints since the time I started to walk. For years, friends and family dreamed of how exciting it would be to see our team win a Super Bowl, but we would often walk out of home games in disgust because the team could never win. For us, it was simply a dream.
Then the unimaginable happened to New Orleans and the surrounding areas. On August 29, 2005, Hurricane Katrina wreaked devastation leaving 80% of the city flooded and thousands homeless – including the New Orleans Saints. There were rumors of the team moving to San Antonio, Texas, and many believed that the Saints had given up on the city and the elusive championship title.

Fortunately, the Saints and the National Football League came up with a plan to keep them in New Orleans, but the team’s journey had just begun. Adversity seemed to be their theme that year. The saints had a new coach, new players and had to play in Baton Rouge, about 45 minutes west of New Orleans, and in San Antonio, Texas. The team became nomads as their home games became away games. But, none of that mattered. They were determined and united in their purpose and their fans were the 12th man on the playing field with them every Sunday.

In my eyes, three people played key roles in the team’s rebirth – New Orleans Saints General Manager Mickey Loomis, Coach Sean Payton and Quarterback Drew Brees. Drew Brees is the individual that became the leader of change for the Saints. He suffered what many believed to be a career-ending injury while playing with the San Diego Chargers before joining the Saints. His story is an inspiration to us all.

I remember watching him for the first time at a news conference when he first joined the Saints. There was something in his eyes that made me realize he would be the team’s catalyst for success. You could tell he was a winner. A warrior. A dreamer. Even with the weight of the team and the city of New Orleans on his shoulders, Drew continued on his determined path. He not only gave his heart and soul on the field, but also on the streets of his community. He and his wife, Brittany, are enthusiastic philanthropists and strive to make the city they live in a better place.

Drew made a promise to the city that he would succeed. He kept his promise. None of the team’s accomplishments would have been possible without having a commitment to a goal and having a dream. The entire city experienced the fruits of their labors when the New Orleans Saints achieved the impossible. After 43 years, they won the Super Bowl. Against all odds, this young team marched onto the field and into the hearts of America.

I remember watching Drew raise his son, Baylen, above his head with the word, “champion,” highlighted on the video board behind him. It brought a tear to my eye and taught me what hard work, dedication and a positive attitude can accomplish.

I believe that we can all learn from Drew Brees and the New Orleans Saints. God can put a dream in our hearts and minds and it is up to each of us to pursue every possible avenue to make it come true. He is one of my personal heros that I have learned a life lesson from that is invaluable. Always remember that dreams are what we live for – we live for that moment and it can happen to anyone.

Drew is definitely a person that “Got Off His Attitude” and overcame tremendous odds to achieve his dream. So, the next time you are struggling in some aspect of your personal life or professional career and need to refocus your energy on what you can do to accomplish your goals, just ask Drew.

”Remember that it is up to you to choose everyday to Get off Your Attitude and to create a positive lifestyle for yourself and others” Ryan C. Lowe
For more information please visit www.getoffyouratittude.com or www.ryanclowe.com

A Positive Attitude is a Must Have!

I personally think that a Positve Attitude is a MUST have in life and in business. I have personally worked with professionals all across the country and one thing I noticed is that the successful ones all had a great attitude. They also had a love of what they do and a passion. That is what it takes to be successful in anything in my opinion.

Here are several other attitudes that I think that are a must have:

* Winning Attitude
* Never Give Up Attitude
* Attitude of Grattitude
* Giving Attitude
* Optimistic Attitude
* Learning Attitude
* Fun Atttitude
* Do it Now Attitude
* Loving Attitude
* Healthy Attitude

These types of attitudes should be on everyone’s goal sheet to achieve on a daily basis. I know it is not easy. Nothing is easy, but from experience having a great attitude makes life easier. This is a simple rule, people love to be around people that have any of the attitudes listed above. I challenge you for the next 7 days to ”Get off your Attitude” and adopt one of these great attitudes and please let me know how that works for you. Please respond to this blog with your success story. I know that it will work for you and I wish you the best of luck.
”Remember that it is up to you to choose everyday to Get off Your Attitude and to create a positive lifestyle for yourself and others” Ryan C. Lowe

For more information please visit www.getoffyourattitude.com or www.ryanclowe.com

Monday, November 8, 2010

Developing a Winning Attitude

I heard a very interesting statement not too long ago that really made me think and it has stuck with me for sometime now… this person made a statement saying “you can measure a person’s height, you can measure how high a person can jump, you can even measure how fast they run, but you CAN NOT measure a person’s heart. What that person meant and what I got from that statement is that you never know what’s in a person’s heart and just how hard someone will work for something.


This statement stuck with me because the more I thought about it I realized how true it was. You never know how bad someone wants something in life and how far they will go to achieve it. We hear everyday how people reach these amazing goals or reach these amazing heights in life. We hear how hard they work and how they just will not give up. The amazing thing that most people don’t realize is that they are no different then we are.

The only difference between those people and the people that don’t reach their goals or their dreams in life is one thing… and that one thing is a WINNING ATTTITUDE!

They have the attitude of NO FEAR and that they are going to WIN…they have in their mind that they will win NO MATTER WHAT!

Unfortunately most of us let our circumstances or others set the bar on how far we will go in life. We also let fear dictate us. Fear is real. Don’t let anyone tell you different. We must learn how to use FEAR to our advantage. By letting FEAR rule us we don’t win or reach any of our goals, instead we set unrealistic limitations on ourselves. We let our own minds tell us what we can and cannot do before we even try to accomplish the task we have in front of us.

I have the honor of knowing someone personally that has that winning attitude. He is a terrific 11year old boy named Dakota. He is actually my nephew. He weighs in at 60 pounds and is maybe 4”3”. His coach and fellow players nicknamed him “Mini Me”. Last year “Mini Me” took home the award for the most courage. His coach told me he wishes that every one of his players had the heart and commitment that he has. Dakota gives 110% in every game and he has a winning attitude. He does not let fear stop him from playing the game he loves against kids twice his size. He may be small but I definitely look up to him when it comes to living a life without limitations.

Just recently I was asked to speak to a football team about positive attitude and on how to develop a winning attitude. It’s a team that’s struggling with winning personally within and on the football field. I shared with them several stories of my own personal struggles in dealing with defeat and winning in life. I also shared with them principles that I teach to business professionals in my “Get off Your Attitude” seminars.

I would like to share with you the same principles that I discussed with the team that I think can help anyone create a winning attitude.

The first principle I shared with them is that you must first choose to be Positive. You must develop the habits of thinking, talking and acting positive. We all have the choice of how we will handle the day or any situation that we confront. It’s a very simple choice. Are you going to be positive or negative? Charles Swindoll stated it best in one of his quotes, “I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it.” So if you respond to what happens to you in life in a positive manner that is the first step to being a winner.

The second principle I shared with them is to be Honest. You must first learn to be honest with yourself. You must be able to admit to yourself when you’re doing a great job and giving a 100%. Only you know deep down in your heart if you’re being truthful to others and yourself. You must have a since of integrity to reach great heights in your life. Honesty is key in growth in maturity.

The third principle is Commitment. When you decide to take on a project or participate in anything in life you must be committed all the way until it is completed. Your commitment to anything first starts in the planning, preparation and you must be committed to everything leading up to that moment. Once you are prepared give that certain goal or task the 110% percent that it deserves. You should stay positive and never think about quitting. That is where true success is found.

The fourth principle is Faith. You must have Faith in God, yourself and in others to reach any success in life. You must be able to put your trust in those areas in your life. Julio Melara states, “When you do what you can do, God will do what you can't!” That is what faith is all about. You must have the attitude that faith and trust are needed to succeed.

The last principle is you must Believe. You must believe you will win in anything before you even attempt it. Sun Tzu stated in the book “The Art of War” that “Victorious warriors win first and then go to war, while defeated warriors go to war first and then seek to win.” I personally think that most of us try to win in life with the wrong mindset and attitude. We must think positive and get rid of the “stinking thinking” I like to call it. We must learn to stay focused on positive thoughts and know in our hearts and minds that we are equipped with the right talents, gifts and that we can achieve anything we put our minds to.

By letting go of the negative limitations in our minds and allowing ourselves to see the victory first, this habit will help us reach great success. Whatever great idea or passion you have in your heart. I inspire you to go for it. You will experience life in a whole other area than you are used to now. Make sure you break the old habits and created new ones. Get out of your comfort zone and be the winner that you know you are It’s what you think, not what others think, that matters!

So remember, always be positive in your actions and honest with yourself and others and remember to give 110% percent in everything you do. Have Faith in God and Believe with all your heart and mind you are a winner, and you will then develop a winning attitude and you will win in life.

If there is one quote that I can suggest for you to live your life by is the one by Winston Churchill..”NEVER NEVER NEVER GIVE UP”!!!

”Remember that it is up to you to choose everyday to Get off Your Attitude and to create a positive lifestyle for yourself and others” Ryan C. Lowe

For more information please visit www.getoffyourattitude.com or www.ryanclowe.com